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Maaaaaaarrry me!

Sudah terlalu banyak temanku yang menikah 2 tahun belakangan ini. Sebenarnya, bagi lelaki apa sih untungnya menikah cepat-cepat? apa tergesa-gesa karena ini sudah tahun 2012? Seorang lelaki yang nantinya akan menjadi kepala keluarga haruslah matang secara moral, nalar, maupun materi.

Memang, di pernikahan orang barat ada 'till death do us part'. Tapi kalau ketiga aspek penting itu tidak segera dipenuhi, kata death atau part akan datang lebih cepat dari yang semua duga.

For me, I think I'll take my time. Allah has given me a plan, it won't be stalled by anyone. saya tidak akan memaksakan harus menikah, tapi saya tidak akan menundanya ketika saya rasa siap. Yaitu ketika ketiga aspek tersebut telah terpenuhi.

Untuk teman-teman yang belum menikah, bersabarlah. Hal ini bukan seperti permainan 'pacar-pacaran' yang dikemudian hari dapat dihentikan secara sepihak. This is suppose to be for life. Dan hidup beberapa orang terletak di tangan anda, wahai temanku sesama kaum Adam!
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